Single & Available
(Men Are Born To Be Hunters & Women Are Born To Wait)
(June 5, 2010)
I wrote this while in a Christian fellowship in Manila. I was thinking why girls like me think that being single and available is a problem. I know so many single ladies around me. Some of my colleagues, some of my cousins, my sisters abroad and I have to admit that I am one of them. Are we just being wise? Or afraid to fall inlove deeply again? When I was still attending Singles for Christ in U.A.E. There was this female speaker and she had a talk about love. She said that Men are born to be hunters and Women are born to wait. Are women meant to wait forever? What if the right man would not come and you are already 70? Are you still going to wait? I know it is hard, especially when you are dreaming of a prince charming and have pretty kids happily living in a castle. Remember that you can't force love but you can learn to love someone. We are the one who's making our own fairy tale. I don't believe it when some people say that there is no happy ending. There is no perfect relationship but there is a happy ever after. It is always our choice.